Financial problem in the family is a very difficult and stressful situation in which a man can get.Especially if you have a big family, you need in sufficient money.For example you need in a lot of foods, clothes and others main things.And most importantly you must pay for electricity, water, gas, and all you need around the house and that's why you need money.The worst thing is when many quarrels in the family is due to financial problems and it's also very bad situation.Аnd of course the financial problems caused by unemployment.Аs we know now is very difficult to find high-paying job.Аnd I think that if there were effective methods of dealing with financial problems, then life would be much better and kinder, without any violence, theft and war
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Financial problems in the family
The problem of finance in almost every family is a red stripe, no matter how high the total income of the family. How many would not have earned the family, the question always arises, what to spend money and how to divide them. Therefore, with great confidence we can say that the financial problems of the family - this is the psychological problem of the relationship of the spouses.
Usually the man earns more than women, and it is by its nature is the head of the family breadwinner, the provider. In a family where financial matters in charge of a man, woman and it approves, as a rule, fewer problems than in those families where the woman tries to take the initiative into their own hands and dictate their terms.
It is very common this problem: the woman, earning less (sometimes more), take your money personally its money that it spends only on himself, and the money her husband believes in common.
Men, women see this attitude very often hide their true income to be able to independently manage their money and, just like women, spend it on themselves.
Clearly, such decomposed are not the norm and lead to a large family problems. How to solve these problems?
The solution can be only one - ARRANGEMENT. Very often, problems arise when this arrangement is simply not present. One of the partners is itself one thing, believing that the financial issue should be solved in some particular way, the other says another.
There is no single right solution is unique distribution of funds in the family. Must be all the money in general or each live on only what he earns - depends entirely on the personalities of the spouses, how they so agree.
Wrong can be just the lack of understanding and following of this misunderstanding, mutual claims and determine the priority in household expenditure. As a rule, the problem is not how many family earns, and how it spends its money.
Diana Frances Spencer was born on 1 July, 1961 in the estate of the Spencers in Norfolk. Diana's parents were from aristocratic families: her father's name is Viscount Althrop and her mother's name is Frances Roche. The ancestors of her father Earl Spencer were relatives of a royal dynasty. The mother had a noble title too. When Diana was six, her mother left the family and in 1969 the marriage of her parents was officially dissolved.
In 1975 Althrop inherited the title of Earl Spencer from his father and for the second/time married Raine, the Countess of Dartmouth, the daughter of the writer Barbara Cartland.
Diana was sent to the private school. She dreamt of being a ballerina, but, then, as she told herself, she had to give up this idea because it appeared that she was too tall for that. Diana studied at normal schools — at first in Norfolk, then in Kent. When she was 16 she left for Switzerland and finished school there. Having returned, she lived with her friends in London, earning as a cook or a nanny, and then found the job of a teacher in a kindergarten.
For the first time Diana met the Prince in 1977, in the estate of Diana's father. Diana's sister Sarah introduced them to each other. They began to date. At this time it was considered in Buckingham Palace that the heir should marry. Diana seemed to be a suitable candidate, though Spencers were not royal by descent. But Diana was not catholic, so one of the main conditions of a royal marriage was observed, and the decision was made. They were married at St. Paul's Cathedral on July 29, 1981 and this wedding became rather most brilliant event in Britain. Diana was twenty, Charles — thirty-two.
However, after the honeymoon the relations between the couple started getting worse.
In June, 1982 the Princess of Wales gave birth to her first son, Prince William, and in September, 1984 she gave birth to her second child Prince Henry. The Royal family hoped that with birth of the sons peace would reign in the family. But the hopes appeared to be vain. Charles and Diana were moving away from each other. The situation became even worse, when the Princess understood, that heart of the Prince belongs to another woman — Camilla Parker-Bowles (later, in 1986, it became known, that he renewed the relations with her). Then Diana, in her turn, began to take lessons of horse riding from the major Hewitt, a heart breaker from the high society. The exposing scandalous photos and overheard telephone conversations of the husband and wife appeared in mass media.
Since autumn 1987 the couple began to spend practically all the time separately. In December, 1992 the Prime Minister John Major announced to the Parliament, that Diana and Charles were going to divorce. The official divorce was held in August, 1996.
Several last weeks of her life Princess Diana spent together with her friend Duddy Al-Fayed, 41 years old, the senior son of the Egyptian billionaire Mohammed Al-Fayed, the owner of the most fashionable London shop «Harrods», Paris hotel «Ritz», and a lot of others.
On August 31, 1997 Princess Diana was killed in a car accident together with Duddi. Diana's death was a great tragedy and loss for the whole British nation. In her life she did a lot of charity all over the world and became the most popular and beloved figure of the royal family. Her death is still full of mysteries.