What it means to be a teenager?
Despite the fact that each of us went through a period of growing up, people easily forget what they were at the time. You can criticize as much as the current generation of young people to complain as they are lazy, rude, whimsical and tedious, and it is difficult to please them. You do not really know what she wants teens (and he himself may not be aware of this), but it's very simple. All it needs maturing child - parental love and understanding. Teens constantly feel under the gun prying eyes, they want to hide, shrink to just nobody noticed as they are clumsy and ugly. During this period, their self-esteem hovers around zero. Therefore it is very important to know that you are on their side. They, and so there is no support, and if the parents themselves against them, their life becomes unbearable double. To try to understand adolescent need to put yourself in his place. It often seems impossible and even absurd, but do it very easily. To do this, just remember, what were you yourself, when you were 12-16 years old.
You seem to have a lot of energy, but regularly it turns out that you are doing much less than you intended. Sometimes you can trace a bit of what the day or week was exchanged for, but most of the leaks remain a mystery. Many complain about insufficient willpower, poor motivation, attention problems, and other mental functions. Others blame "vampires" - those around them: the boss, coworkers, difficult clients, a demanding child, or a mother. But in fact ... The reasons for any energy leakage are unconscious habitual feelings. Your energy is often spent on feelings of habitual resentment.