Financial problem in the family is a very difficult and stressful situation in which a man can get.Especially if you have a big family, you need in sufficient money.For example you need in a lot of foods, clothes and others main things.And most importantly you must pay for electricity, water, gas, and all you need around the house and that's why you need money.The worst thing is when many quarrels in the family is due to financial problems and it's also very bad situation.Аnd of course the financial problems caused by unemployment.Аs we know now is very difficult to find high-paying job.Аnd I think that if there were effective methods of dealing with financial problems, then life would be much better and kinder, without any violence, theft and war
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Financial problems in the family
The problem of finance in almost every family is a red stripe, no matter how high the total income of the family. How many would not have earned the family, the question always arises, what to spend money and how to divide them. Therefore, with great confidence we can say that the financial problems of the family - this is the psychological problem of the relationship of the spouses.
Usually the man earns more than women, and it is by its nature is the head of the family breadwinner, the provider. In a family where financial matters in charge of a man, woman and it approves, as a rule, fewer problems than in those families where the woman tries to take the initiative into their own hands and dictate their terms.
It is very common this problem: the woman, earning less (sometimes more), take your money personally its money that it spends only on himself, and the money her husband believes in common.
Men, women see this attitude very often hide their true income to be able to independently manage their money and, just like women, spend it on themselves.
Clearly, such decomposed are not the norm and lead to a large family problems. How to solve these problems?
The solution can be only one - ARRANGEMENT. Very often, problems arise when this arrangement is simply not present. One of the partners is itself one thing, believing that the financial issue should be solved in some particular way, the other says another.
There is no single right solution is unique distribution of funds in the family. Must be all the money in general or each live on only what he earns - depends entirely on the personalities of the spouses, how they so agree.
Wrong can be just the lack of understanding and following of this misunderstanding, mutual claims and determine the priority in household expenditure. As a rule, the problem is not how many family earns, and how it spends its money.
